To Err is Human?

Time and again I've come across people who are just dishonest and they lie. It’s especially hard when you have somewhat of a close relationship with these individuals at some level. At this point, since detachment becomes next to impossible due to perhaps family ties or due to being close to that person at some point in time the best way to deal with it is play along. Play along with every single thing that they say to you and pretend like you agree with everything that comes out of their mouth. I find this tactic to be very helpful because it satisfies both parties. You make the other party happy because they think that you’re actually buying into their crap and you on the other hand remain unaffected and know better. Sweet deal. This method works, tried and tested. What is it about certain relationships that sometimes you just can't end or walk away from. I mean if it's all just a façade then why not be able to walk away? Why continue to mingle with people who do nothing but spready negativity in your world. I suppose there are certain societal norms and pressures that have been so deeply instilled into our being that makes detachment an impossibility. I firmly believe that it's better to spend time alone by yourself rather than being around people who do nothing for you at all. I for one adopt that policy for the most part in my life but am chastised for being aloof and uncaring. On the contrary however, aren't I trying to be honest and true to myself by not associating with people who would more than likely compel one not to like them? So how in this mix did I become the aloof and uncaring one? Go figure..